Multi-generational Topics

Many of the issues facing our culture today are multi-generational. Sexual abuse and exploitation can breed in disconnected families. It is important to strengthen critical multi-generational relationships so that when the storms of life hit, mothers, grandmothers, and other caring adults are equipped and ready to step in with biblical principles to help guide the next generation in practical, life-changing ways. Titus 2 clearly calls women to disciple the next generation, whether their own children or someone else’s. Mentoring with a discipleship perspective can change lives and transform hearts.

“You, however, must teach what is appropriate to sound doctrine” – Titus 2:1

“Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of the heavens, and those who lead many to righteousness, like the stars forever and ever.” – Daniel 12:3

I traveled with the rekenekt graffiti wall for over 12 years and saw a common theme emerge. Families were disconnected. Many were not talking honestly about issues in their lives. Some were hiding deep dark secrets causing inner turmoil and preventing them from connecting. Parents blamed kids and kids blamed parents. In the end, no matter who was responsible, the outcome was the same: broken and disconnected relationships between parents and children that were at the root of many of the issues that were threatening their families.

Estrangement within families is common today, the message to reconnect is more important than ever. The messages from the graffiti wall are fascinating, heartbreaking, and downright frightening.  Reconnecting parents and teens proves difficult in this fast-paced culture where chat apps, texting and AI have replaced honest communication. An old tin can phone shares the idea that getting a good old-fashioned conversation started can go a long way to repairing damaged relationships and reconnecting parents and their children. 


Do you want to offer a transformational message at your next women’s event, or retreat? Do you want to bring the generations of your church together to transform the multi-generational connection in your church? Reach out to see if this Illuminate program might be good for you.

“For the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth.” – Eph 5:9

“Trish has a way about her that is endearing to children as well as parents. God has blessed her with the amazing ability to communicate His truths in an inspiring and humorous way. My high-energy, nature-loving daughter actually sat for over an hour captivated by Tricia’s teachings on manners. Mind you, this is no small feat! I would highly recommend seeing her speak; you will leave feeling inspired & rejuvenated!”
– Kris, mother/daughter event

Mother-Daughter Tea Parties

Looking for a light, fun, and fancy event for your group? Tea Parties are perfect for a luncheon or cross-generational event. Adapted from the Raising Little Women of God Curriculum, the emphasis is on social etiquette and how our behavior reflects the God we serve. This material provides fun mother/daughter interaction with stories, role-playing, and skits. Mothers and daughters, spiritual moms, the girls closest to them, and women of all ages will enjoy this fun and fancy event.

Light For the Journey

For women ages 8-80, 'Light for the Journey' will help strengthen your multi-generational relationship by embracing God’s original plan for you as a woman. Women of all ages in this generation often find themselves confused and disconnected in their roles. This message challenges mothers and daughters to reclaim their God-given purpose as they pursue this holy partnership. This topic is perfect for your next mother-daughter retreat or event. A shorter program called "Grab Your Lantern: Shining Light on the next generation is a great luncheon topic or community outreach program.

HEART TO HEART: God's plan for mothers and daughters

This topic focuses on the roles of mothers in society and how we can reclaim the most important job on earth. Girls come to understand who their mother is designed to be and who she is not. Interactive face-to-face sessions and team-building activities make this perfect for any mother-daughter event. This program is perfect for retreat weekends, conferences, and camps. Although it is designed for mothers and daughters, it can easily be adapted to women's retreats for women in any phase of life.

STEP INTO HISTORY

History is personal and God is sovereign over all things throughout the course of time. History is God's story-His story for each of us. This topic helps women of all ages step boldly into His story for their lives. This program discusses ‘Learning from God in your past, living for God in your present, and seeking God in your future’. Lots of interactive team-building exercises are included to make fun but challenging face-to-face interactions a meaningful way to better understand the people in our lives. This topic is excellent for women's retreats or multi-session event.

WORDS THEY LONG TO HEAR: MESSAGES FROM THE WALL–

30 years of collecting messages from the rekenekt graffiti wall confirms what we know. Family relationships are breaking down and estrangement is all too common. If you need a powerful topic that changes the way we look at behavior and societal issues in the next generation. This program is good for parents, grandparents, and children of all ages who long to reconnect with their loved ones. Suitable for any multi-generational events and retreats.

ACROSS GENERATIONS

Helps biological and spiritual mothers, grandmothers, and mentors prioritize their relationship with daughters of all ages. A fun, interactive, and life-changing event takes mother-daughter relationships of all ages in your group to the next level as they learn how to glorify God together. Makes a great luncheon, mother-daughter event, or full weekend retreats. This program can include large group sessions, breakout groups, action challenges, role-playing, and crafts and activities. An adapted version called Mom and Me Time for Tea is a sweet option for younger girls.

What past attendees are saying:


“Mom, she was the best speaker I ever heard!”

– Mother/daughter tea attendee age 8

“My girls and I needed this today. I often question what I have to offer God. This is a reminder that all he wants is my heart.”

– Grandmother & mother of three adult women

“We had four generations of Mothers and daughters today! What a blessing to share our hearts across generations.”

– Daughter, Grandmother, and mother of four girls

“I didn’t want to come here with my mom. We are not the best of friends. Instead, God met us here and helped us recommit to loving one another. I am leaving with a new friend.”

– 15-year-old daughter

“I never thought of my life experience as being part of God’s story for my life. Thanks for helping me start the first chapter!”

– Teenage girl

“Unbelievable. I thought this was going to be a light getaway weekend. I am changed and renewed. The material in the session must have been hand-picked for me. I am going home with a new light for my journey.”

– Retreat attendee

“Trish is a remarkable speaker with a lot of life experiences to teach about. She brought our relationship closer with all the ‘extras’ we did throughout the weekend.”

– Mother of a teen daughter

To discuss how Illuminate speaking can be a part of your next event. retreat, or program, connect with Trish at: trish@illuminatetheissue.org

Let's connect: 920-419-0012

trish@illuminatetheissue.org

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Lynchburg, VA 24501